Journal of Teenage Years


From September 23, 1983

Index of Special Moments


9-23-83 First time to play in a game (Band)1
9-24-83 The day I got lost2
10/4–9/-83 First time I went to Youth Conference6–9
10/27/83 First time I ever played in a football game15
10/28/83 First halftime presentation (Band)16
11/9/83 Second time to play in a football game23
12/13/83 First time to wrestle in a match24
12/28/83 I moved again[31]
6/25/84 I moved back to Salt Lake43
11/12/85 Back surgery at Shriners [Hospital]50
12/8/85 Cancelled church [meetings]72
12/10/85 Asked on first date “exciting”72–73
12/14/85 Went on first date75–76


A note among the pages of his journal has the following resolutions for 1985:
Read scriptures more
State for wrestling
More social
Learn to spell — vocabulary
Get better grades — HOMEWORK
Build body
Get a job in summer


There are no more index entries, but the journal continues for another 66 pages. I provide here an additional index of events, some probably not so noteworthy in Geoff’s mind.
12/15/85 Left Holding the Bag (Band)76
12/24/85 Meager Christmas81
1/3/86 Began a Budget87
1/13/86 Tried to see Halley’s comet92
1/18/86 Tried wrestling again95
1/24/86 Job at Smiths as bagger98
3/21/86 Trip to San Diego105
4/9/86 Challenge to help in simple ways113
10/12/86 Begin Senior year124
2/5/87 Wrestling season results131
3/20/87 A late date133
7/19/87 Some questions138
8/16/87 A few answers140


There are two undated notes of interest made during this time. The first is on a computer printout sheet of paper (around 1986):
I, Jonathan David Despain, promise to never get married for fear of giving up one (1) dollar to Geoffrey Allen Despain because of a bet I made with Geoffrey Allen Despain.
Signed: Jonathan Despain
Signed: Geoff Despain
The second is on a note paper dated to about 1987:
Before Jon goes on his mission, if he ever hits 200 pounds, then he owes Geoff $5.00. If before he goes he doesn’t hit 200, then Geoff owes him $5.00.
Geoff Despain
Jonathan Despain